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Monica Mendes

Monica Mendes, BACP

United Kingdom 11 years in practice

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BACP counsellor - stress and relationships

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  • Client-Centred Therapy
  • Mindfulness Therapy
  • Solution-Focused work

About Monica

BACP counsellor practising in the United Kingdom with 11 years of experience, Monica Mendes helps people manage stress, anxiety, low mood, relationship and family tensions, grief, and self-esteem concerns. She works with clients on issues related to intimacy, anger, career stress, depression and compassion fatigue. Monica also focuses on attachment and abandonment concerns, autism and Asperger Syndrome, dissociation, and aspects of alternative sexual culture such as BDSM and kink.

Monica uses straightforward conversations to identify what feels most difficult right now. She draws on client-centred work to follow each person’s lead and on solution-focused techniques to set clear short-term goals. Mindfulness methods are introduced for grounding and emotional regulation. Motivational interviewing helps when people want to make changes but feel stuck.

Sessions are practical and paced to what the person wants to address. Monica listens for patterns in relationships and communication, and helps people try different ways of responding. She will talk through coping strategies for grief, workplace strain, caregiver stress and codependency concerns.

Clients can expect work on specific problems such as commitment or control issues, or on broader themes like emptiness and meaning after relationship breakdown. Monica pays attention to how past attachment experiences shape current reactions, including avoidant or dependent tendencies.

She offers help in English and accepts international clients. Costs vary by location and are provided through a cancellable subscription model. To begin, use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire and schedule an initial session.

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How Monica uses practical approaches in online work

Monica commonly combines client-centred work with solution-focused techniques. Client-Centred Therapy means she follows what matters most to the person and builds conversations around their priorities. Solution-Focused work aims for small, achievable steps and clear short-term goals to change what isn’t working.

She also uses mindfulness and motivational interviewing as tools within sessions. Mindfulness Therapy teaches simple grounding and breathing practices to help manage intense feelings. Motivational Interviewing supports people who are unsure about change by exploring their own reasons and strengths.

Finding the right mix of approaches is part of the collaborative process. Monica will discuss what feels useful and adjust methods based on the client’s needs, goals and preferences rather than applying a single model from the start.

The original biography does not list which specific online formats are offered, so confirm session options before booking. Online work can make it easier to fit sessions into a busy week, reduce travel time, and allow shorter check-ins when a full-hour session is not needed. It can also mean switching to audio-only if bandwidth is limited or choosing a time that fits around work or caregiving commitments.

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Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Stress, AnxietyRelationship issuesFamily conflictsGriefCoping with life changes

Also works with

LGBTTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesAnger managementSelf esteemCareer difficultiesDepressionCompassion fatigue

Additional focus areas

AbandonmentAttachment issuesAutism and Asperger SyndromeAvoidant personalityBDSM, kink, and alternative sex cultureCaregiver issues and stressCodependencyCommitment issuesCommunication problemsControl issuesDependent personalityDissociationDivorce and separationEmptinessFamily problemsFirst responder issuesForgivenessGuilt and shameInfidelityIsolation / lonelinessJealousyLife purposeMidlife crisisMulticultural concernsPanic disorder and panic attacksPolyamory / non-monogamous relationshipsPost-traumatic stressPrejudice and discriminationSeasonal Affective Disorder (SAD)Self-harmSelf-loveSexual assault and abuseSexualityWomen's issuesWorkplace issuesYoung adult issues

Therapeutic approaches

Client-Centered TherapyMindfulness TherapyMotivational InterviewingSolution-Focused Therapy

Experience

11+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

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Frequently asked questions

What kinds of problems does she help with?

She supports people with stress, anxiety, low mood, relationship and family tensions, grief, and self-esteem concerns. Additional focus areas include attachment issues, autism and Asperger Syndrome, and aspects of alternative sexual culture.

What is the therapeutic style?

Her style is client-centred and practical. She uses mindfulness, motivational interviewing and solution-focused techniques to set goals and try new ways of coping.

How much experience does she have?

She has 11 years of professional experience working with the concerns listed in her profile.

What credential does she hold and where is she based?

She is registered with the BACP and works from the United Kingdom.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English, and she accepts international clients.

What session formats are available?

The original biography does not list specific session formats. Confirm current session options before booking to know how sessions are delivered.

How is cost handled?

Costs vary with location and sessions are provided through a subscription that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I start working with her?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the urgent help numbers.

Monica Mendes

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