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Entry 127349New Jersey / United States

Thomas (Tom) Malek-Jones

Thomas (Tom) Malek-Jones, LCSW

New Jersey 20 years in practice

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LCSW - relationships and trauma

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  • Relationship issues
  • Trauma and abuse
  • Parenting support

About Thomas

LCSW in New Jersey with 20 years of experience, Thomas (Tom) Malek-Jones focuses on relationship concerns, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, depression, addictions, and ADHD. He helps people who are struggling with parenting pressures, eating concerns, or motivation and confidence problems. Sessions are offered in English and he works from his New Jersey practice.

Tom treats relationship and trauma issues by listening closely and working with each person’s goals. He approaches conversations practically, helping people notice patterns that get in the way of connection or recovery. He partners with clients to identify small, concrete steps that reduce distress and build on strengths.

Tom also helps with addiction-related concerns, process behaviors, and eating struggles. He talks through triggers and coping choices, and helps people plan for setbacks without shaming them. When dealing with intimacy challenges he focuses on communication skills and building trust over time.

He brings experience supporting people facing major life transitions such as adoption and foster care, aging and end-of-life issues, veteran and first responder concerns, and coping after disasters. That experience informs how he tailors conversations about grief, role change, and practical problem solving.

Tom describes clients as the experts in their own stories and treats therapy as collaborative work. He invites clients to set goals, practice new behaviors between sessions, and reassess what’s working. To begin, readers should confirm current session options and then use the booking steps provided by the service.

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How Thomas uses treatment methods in remote sessions

Thomas works with evidence-based therapeutic techniques that aim to change unhelpful patterns and build new skills. One common approach focuses on identifying thoughts and behaviors that keep problems going, then testing small changes in everyday life to see what helps. This approach is useful for depression, low self-esteem, and some addiction-related behaviors.

Another approach centers on processing trauma and improving safety in relationships. It involves paced conversations about difficult events, developing coping strategies for distressing memories, and practicing new ways to connect and set boundaries. This can help with intimacy concerns and trauma-related symptoms.

Choosing the right method is collaborative. Thomas will discuss options with each person, consider goals and comfort level, and adjust the approach as work progresses. He treats the first sessions as a time to try different techniques and decide what fits best.

Session formats are not specified in the biography, so confirm available options before booking. In general, remote sessions can make it easier to fit meetings into a busy week, allow shorter check-ins when schedules demand, and reduce travel time. Licensed professionals can use remote work to keep continuity of care during life changes, while tailoring sessions to practical needs and goals.

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Areas of expertise

Primary focus

Relationship issuesTrauma and abuseIntimacy-related issuesSelf esteemDepression

Also works with

AddictionsEating disordersParenting issuesCoachingADHD

Additional focus areas

Adoption and foster careAging and geriatric issuesAntisocial personalityCoping with natural or human-caused disasterFirst responder issuesHospice and end-of-life counselingVeteran and Armed Forces IssuesPhobiasPrejudice and discriminationProcess addiction (porn, exercise, gambling)Self-harm

Experience

20+ years

Listed in

New Jersey

Languages

English

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Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he address?

He works with relationship problems, trauma and abuse, intimacy-related issues, self-esteem, depression, addictions, eating difficulties, parenting strains, ADHD, and related concerns.

What is his therapeutic style?

He uses evidence-based therapeutic techniques and a practical, collaborative approach. Sessions focus on identifying patterns, setting goals, and practicing concrete steps between meetings.

How long has he practiced?

He has 20 years of professional experience supporting people with relationship, trauma, and addiction-related concerns.

What are his credentials and where is he based?

He is an LCSW licensed in New Jersey and practices from that state.

Which languages are supported?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How are sessions scheduled and what do they cost?

Cost varies by location and sessions use a subscription that can be canceled at any time. Confirm pricing details before booking.

How do I get started?

Use the See online therapy options button, complete the short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session through the platform.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the urgent help numbers.

Thomas (Tom) Malek-Jones

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