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Luke Totty

Luke Totty, BACP

United Kingdom 3 years in practice

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BACP counsellor - relationships and addictions

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  • stress and anxiety
  • addiction support
  • relationship patterns

About Luke

Luke Totty is a BACP counsellor in the United Kingdom with three years' experience and a background in clinical and community settings. He has worked as a therapist for over 3 years and completed more than 3,000 clinical hours after co-facilitating addiction support groups during four years of formal study.

He helps people who are dealing with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship problems, trauma and abuse, and low self-esteem. He also focusses on issues such as abandonment, control, forgiveness, guilt and shame, life purpose and men's issues. Sessions centre on looking at how past experiences shape current behaviour.

Luke emphasises the role of relationships in both creating pain and supporting recovery. Much of his work looks at the effects of family and partner relationships and how those patterns show up in day-to-day life. He uses discussion and reflection to help clients notice repeating cycles and make different choices.

Vulnerability and honest communication are practical aims in sessions. He encourages clients to name difficult feelings and to practise new ways of relating to themselves and others. Therapy is seen as an interpersonal process rather than only a set of techniques.

Luke has experience supporting people with alcohol and substance use and views addiction as often linked to deeper emotional or relational struggles. He works with clients to trace those connections and to build alternative coping strategies. If you are considering work on relationships, addictive behaviour or long-standing emotional patterns he asks you to confirm current session options before booking.

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How his approaches translate to online work

Luke uses evidence-based techniques that centre on relationships and patterns. One clear strand is work that traces how early or repeated relationships shape current reactions; this helps when the main problem is repeated conflict, anxiety, or patterns around control. Another strand focuses on addictive behaviour, looking at triggers, coping routines and the emotions that sit beneath substance use to develop alternative responses.

Finding the right approach is part of the process. He will discuss your needs, goals and preferences and then agree a practical way of working together. That collaborative planning includes checking which methods fit your situation and adjusting them as work progresses.

The therapist's biography does not list which session formats are offered. Please confirm current session options before booking. In general, online sessions can make it easier to fit appointments into a busy week, reduce travel time and allow shorter check-ins when needed. They also let people pick arrangements that suit their concentration or bandwidth, for example sessions that do not rely on video if that is preferable.

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Areas of expertise

Experience

3+ years

Listed in

United Kingdom

Languages

English

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Frequently asked questions

What concerns does he address?

He works with stress, anxiety, addictions, relationship problems, trauma and low self-esteem. Additional focus areas include abandonment, control issues, forgiveness, guilt and shame, life purpose and men's issues.

What is his therapeutic style?

He focuses on relationships and emotional patterns. Sessions involve talking through how past relationships shape current behaviour and trying out different ways of relating.

How much experience does he have?

He has three years of post-study experience and reports over 3,000 hours of clinical work following four years of formal study.

What credential does he hold and where is he based?

He is registered with the BACP and practises in the United Kingdom.

Which languages are used in sessions?

Sessions are offered in English.

Can international clients work with him?

He does not accept international clients at this time.

How much do sessions cost?

Cost varies with location and sessions are provided through a subscription model that can be cancelled at any time.

How do I begin a course of work with him?

Select the See online therapy options button, complete a short matching questionnaire, and schedule a first session.

Online talk therapy is not emergency care. If you are in danger, use the urgent help numbers.

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